Who was Ned Stark in love with?

Eddard Stark
Eddard Stark by Amok©
Born In 263 AC, at Winterfell
Died In 299 AC (aged 36), at Great Sept of Baelor in King's Landing
Spouse(s) Lady Catelyn Tully
Lover(s) Wylla (supposedly) Ashara Dayne (rumored) Fisherman's daughter (rumored)

Eddard Stark by Amok©
Born	In 263 AC, at Winterfell
Died	In 299 AC (aged 36), at Great Sept of Baelor in King's Landing
Spouse(s)	Lady Catelyn Tully
Lover(s)	Wylla (supposedly) Ashara Dayne (rumored) Fisherman's daughter (rumored)

Did catelyn love Ned and Brandon Stark?

She definitely had developed love for Ned over the years. You also need to recognize that she also had to plan on marrying Brandon prior to all of the events. So, she already had worked it into her mind that she would marry Brandon and live as happy as she could ever be considering her situation.

Why did Ned Stark not say Catelyn?

Because Eddard did not trust Catelyn at the time enough to tell her about a secret that could lead to murder of Jon and destruction of House Stark. Later the topic just never came up and both of them decided not to bring it up and enjoy a loving marital life. Nothing was to be gained except guaranteed security of Jon.

Did Ned tell Catelyn about Jon?

What Ned did was probably his smartest decision ever. Ned didn't tell anyone about Jon Snow's true heritage and this saved his life. Ned didn't tell Cat because he didnt trust anyone with the secret.

Is Ned Stark a good man?

He's a good and honorable man, and he was well suited for his role as Warden of the North. But as king of the Seven Kingdoms, Ned would find himself navigating unfamiliar waters. Ned has no head for politics, you might say. His honor made him too unbending in his convictions and too rigid in his politics.